Getting Divorced After a Long-Term Marriage: Things to Consider

Getting Divorced After a Long-Term Marriage: Things to Consider

By: Gordon & Perlut, LLC

If you have been married to your spouse for decades and you are now considering divorce, you are likely to encounter distinct issues that parties who have been married for a much shorter time will not need to take into account.

While there are many things to consider when you are planning for divorce after a long-term marriage, we want to discuss a couple of key issues with you. And if you have questions or concerns, you should always seek advice from an experienced Illinois divorce attorney.

Spousal Maintenance May Be Awarded Permanently

Under the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (IMDMA), if one of the parties seeks spousal maintenance, the court will go through a two-step process. It will first determine whether spousal maintenance is appropriate and then will consider the amount and duration of the support award. For most parties, spousal support (also described as maintenance or alimony) is calculated — assuming the court decides alimony is appropriate given the circumstances of the case — by subtracting 25 percent of the receiving spouse’s income from 33 percent of the paying spouse’s income. Then, the court will determine the duration of the alimony based on the length of the marriage.

The longer the marriage has lasted, the longer the duration of the spousal maintenance payment. For example, if a couple has been married for 10 years, the maintenance award is for 4.4 years. Once a couple has been married for 15 years, maintenance is awarded for 6.4 years. A 19-year marriage will result in a maintenance award with a duration of 8 years. If a divorcing couple has been married for 20 years or more, permanent maintenance can be awarded.

Preparing for Retirement Could Be More Difficult

Most couples who have been in long-term marriages are older adults, often around the age of retirement. For many parties in long-term marriages, most if not all their retirement benefits will be classified as marital property and will be subject to distribution in the divorce. If both spouses worked equally during the marriage and earned similar retirement benefits and have ended up with similar retirement investments, property division might not be as significant an issue.

However, for many older adults who are getting divorced, one of the spouses was the primary earner during the marriage and thus is likely the party with the larger retirement investments. If those retirement accounts are classified as marital property, they will be subject to division and will be divided in such a way the court decides is fair to both spouses.

It is much more difficult to build up retirement accounts again if you are close to retirement age or you have recently retired. You may need to make contingency plans for retirement if you will be divorcing after a long-term marriage.

Divorce after a long-term marriage—often referred to as “gray divorce” when it involves couples over 50—is increasingly common in Illinois. These separations come with unique emotional and financial complexities, especially when decades of shared assets, retirement plans, and family dynamics are involved. Below are answers to frequently asked questions that illuminate the legal landscape and practical realities of ending a long-term marriage in Illinois.

Frequently Asked Questions About Divorce After Long-term Marriage in Illinois

Is Illinois a no-fault divorce state?

Indeed, Illinois operates as a pure no-fault divorce state. This means that the only ground for granting a divorce is “irreconcilable differences,” which indicate that the marriage has suffered an irretrievable breakdown. In this system, individuals do not need to present evidence of wrongdoing such as infidelity or abandonment. If the spouses have been living apart for at least six months, the court will generally assume that irreconcilable differences are present.

What makes long-term marriages different in divorce proceedings?

Divorces that occur after long-term marriages bring unique complexities due to various factors, such as: –
Commingled Assets – In these marriages, assets—like retirement accounts, real estate properties, and business interests—are often intertwined, complicating the division process.
Spousal Maintenance (Alimony) Considerations – Financial support may need to be addressed, particularly if one spouse has been dependent on the other.
Family Dynamics – Adult children and relationships with extended family can significantly impact decision-making and emotional considerations during the divorce process.
Health Care and Insurance Issues – Health benefits and coverage may be a significant concern, especially concerning one spouse’s age or health status.
Estate Planning Revisions – Updating wills, trusts, and other estate documents becomes necessary to reflect the new reality post-divorce. Because of these factors, courts tend to adopt a more nuanced approach when dividing property and determining the allocation of spousal maintenance, especially when one spouse may have sacrificed career opportunities or has been financially dependent throughout the marriage.

How is property divided in a long-term marriage?

In Illinois, the approach to property division is based on equitable distribution, rather than an outright equal split. This means that the court strives to divide marital property in a manner that is fair, though it may not necessarily result in a straightforward 50/50 division. When it comes to long-term marriages, the court considers several key aspects:
Length of the Marriage –  Longer marriages may influence the court’s decisions regarding property division and maintenance support.
Contributions of Each Spouse – Both financial and non-financial contributions are evaluated, recognizing the value of homemaking or caregiving.
Future Earning Capacity – The potential earning ability of each spouse moving forward may affect the distribution of assets and support decisions.
Health and Age of Both Parties – The current health and age of the spouses can play a critical role in determining their future financial needs and capabilities.
Retirement and Pension Benefits – The handling of retirement benefits, which may take years to accumulate, is carefully assessed, ensuring fair distribution. Any assets acquired during the marriage are generally classified as marital property, even if they are solely titled in one spouse’s name.

Will I receive spousal maintenance?

There is a possibility of receiving spousal maintenance, commonly known as alimony. In Illinois, courts utilize a formula to calculate maintenance if the combined gross income of both spouses is under $500,000 and no prior support obligations exist. For marriages that have lasted many years, the duration of maintenance may be calculated based on a multiplier related to the length of the marriage. For instance, in a 20-year marriage, the outcome may result in permanent or indefinite maintenance, particularly if one spouse is approaching retirement age or possesses limited earning potential.

What happens to retirement accounts and Social Security?

Retirement accounts, including 401(k)s, IRAs, and pensions, are subjected to division if they were accrued during the marriage. To divide these accounts without incurring tax penalties, a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) may be necessary. In addition, regarding Social Security benefits, if you were married for a decade or more, you may qualify to claim benefits based on your ex-spouse’s work record without impacting their benefits. This is especially relevant in cases of “gray divorce,” where older couples are separating later in life.

Can I keep the marital home?

It is possible to retain the marital home, but this decision hinges on your financial circumstances and the court’s assessment of what is fair. Some spouses may negotiate to keep the home by offering other assets in exchange, while others might opt to sell the property and divide the proceeds. The court will evaluate emotional attachments to the home, the housing needs of each spouse, and their abilities to afford the property when making its decision.

Do I need to update my estate plan after divorce?

Absolutely. It is crucial to revisit and revise your estate plan after a divorce.
This often includes:
Updating Your Will and Trust Documents – Ensuring your wishes are accurately reflected post-divorce is vital.
Changing Beneficiary Designations – Beneficiary information on life insurance policies and retirement accounts should be updated to prevent an ex-spouse from inheriting your assets inadvertently.
Reassigning Powers of Attorney and Healthcare Proxies – Assigning new individuals to make financial and health care decisions on your behalf is critical to avoid complications in the future. Failing to make these updates could lead to unintended consequences, such as your ex-spouse having rights to inherit your estate or making critical medical decisions for you.

Learn More from Our Chicago Divorce Attorneys

Divorce after a long-term marriage in Illinois is not just a legal process—it’s a life transition. From financial restructuring to emotional healing, older couples face distinct challenges. Seeking legal, financial, and emotional support can help you navigate this chapter with clarity and confidence

Divorce after a long-term marriage can be especially complicated, but you should know that one of the Chicago divorce lawyers at our firm can help you with your case. Contact Gordon & Perlut, LLC at 312-360-0250 for more information about the services we provide to clients in the Chicago area.