Divorce often brings significant financial changes for both spouses, but the impact can be especially challenging for mothers who have spent years prioritizing their families over their careers. While every divorce is unique, many women find themselves navigating a new financial reality that includes supporting a household on a single income, returning to the workforce after an extended absence, and managing the day-to-day expenses of raising children.
Fortunately, Illinois law recognizes that marriage often involves shared sacrifices. One spouse may postpone career advancement, education, or earning opportunities to care for children or support the other spouse’s professional success. During divorce, issues such as property division, spousal maintenance, child support, and parenting responsibilities are intended to help ensure that both parties can move forward as fairly as possible.
If you are a mother considering divorce in Chicago or anywhere in Cook County, understanding the financial issues you may face can help you make informed decisions and better prepare for the next chapter of your life.
Most married couples benefit from combining incomes and sharing the cost of housing, utilities, insurance, childcare, transportation, and everyday household expenses. After divorce, those same expenses often must be paid from two separate households.
Even when both spouses are employed, maintaining two households is generally more expensive than maintaining one. For mothers who have worked part-time, left the workforce entirely, or significantly reduced their careers to care for children, the transition can be particularly difficult.
Financial concerns commonly include:
Planning ahead before filing for divorce can often reduce uncertainty and make these financial transitions more manageable.
One of the most significant challenges many newly divorced mothers face is reentering the workforce after spending years as a stay-at-home parent or working only part-time.
Although raising children requires organization, communication, budgeting, scheduling, problem-solving, and countless other valuable skills, employers often focus on recent professional experience when evaluating job candidates.
Technology, licensing requirements, software, and industry standards may have changed considerably during a lengthy career break. Positions that once required only a bachelor’s degree may now expect additional certifications or years of recent experience.
For example, imagine a marketing professional who left her career to raise children shortly after getting married. Fifteen years later, she decides to file for divorce. During those years, digital marketing, artificial intelligence, social media advertising, search engine optimization, and analytics platforms transformed the profession.
Although she possesses valuable education and prior experience, rebuilding her career may require additional training, networking, certifications, or accepting an entry-level position before advancing again.
Similar challenges affect professionals in accounting, healthcare, finance, education, information technology, law, engineering, and many other industries.
Returning to work often involves another significant expense: childcare.
For many newly divorced mothers, childcare costs become one of the largest monthly expenses after housing. Depending on a child’s age and needs, parents may need to budget for:
These expenses can significantly affect employment decisions. Some parents may delay returning to full-time work until children are older, while others may seek flexible or remote employment that allows them to reduce childcare costs.
When developing a parenting plan, it is important to consider how each parent’s work schedule affects childcare responsibilities and whether flexibility can reduce expenses for everyone involved.
Illinois no longer uses the traditional terms “custody” and “visitation.” Instead, courts allocate parental responsibilities and parenting time based on the child’s best interests.
Even when parenting time is shared relatively equally, mothers often continue handling many of the daily responsibilities associated with raising children, including:
These responsibilities may affect work schedules and earning opportunities, particularly when children are young or have special educational or medical needs.
Developing a practical parenting plan that reflects each parent’s availability can help reduce conflict while promoting greater financial and emotional stability.
Illinois uses an Income Shares Model to calculate child support. Rather than placing the entire financial responsibility on one parent, the law attempts to allocate support based upon both parents’ incomes and the amount of parenting time exercised by each parent.
Child support is intended to help provide for children’s basic needs, including housing, food, clothing, education, healthcare, and other ordinary expenses.
However, child support alone rarely replaces the financial advantages of maintaining a two-income household. Many newly divorced mothers continue working while also managing the majority of their children’s daily needs.
Understanding how child support is calculated—and ensuring that income is accurately reported—can have a significant impact on your family’s financial future.
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When one spouse has substantially greater earning capacity than the other, Illinois courts may award spousal maintenance, commonly referred to as alimony.
Maintenance is not awarded in every divorce. Courts evaluate numerous factors, including:
For mothers who left promising careers to raise children, maintenance may provide valuable financial assistance while they complete education, obtain professional certifications, or rebuild their careers.
Although maintenance can help ease the transition, it should generally be viewed as one component of a broader financial plan rather than a permanent source of income.
Many women postpone focusing on retirement while raising children, assuming that retirement savings will continue growing through their spouse’s employment.
Divorce frequently requires a complete reassessment of long-term retirement planning.
Marital retirement assets—including many pensions, 401(k) plans, and other retirement accounts—may be divided during divorce under Illinois’ equitable distribution laws. Depending on the type of account involved, special court orders such as Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs) may be required to divide retirement benefits properly.
Following divorce, it may become necessary to:
Reviewing retirement planning early in the divorce process helps avoid unpleasant surprises later.
Although divorce often creates short-term financial challenges, many women successfully establish long-term financial independence with careful planning.
Some practical steps include:
Small financial improvements made consistently over time can significantly strengthen long-term financial security.
Every divorce presents different financial issues. Some involve substantial investment portfolios, closely held businesses, executive compensation packages, or complex property valuations. Others focus primarily on child support, parenting schedules, retirement accounts, and helping one spouse regain financial independence.
Obtaining experienced legal advice early allows you to understand your rights before important financial decisions are made. It also helps identify opportunities to negotiate fair settlements while avoiding mistakes that could have lasting financial consequences.
Whether your divorce involves significant marital assets or more modest financial circumstances, thoughtful planning can help protect your future and provide greater stability for both you and your children.
If you are considering divorce or have already begun the divorce process, understanding the financial implications is one of the most important steps you can take. The attorneys at Gordon & Perlut, LLC help clients throughout Chicago, Cook County, and the surrounding communities address the financial issues that often accompany divorce, including property division, spousal maintenance, child support, retirement asset division, and parenting-related financial concerns.
Contact Gordon & Perlut, LLC at our Chicago office at 312-360-0250 or call our Skokie office at 847-329-0101 today to schedule a confidential consultation with an experienced Chicago divorce attorney and learn how we can help you protect your financial future while pursuing the best possible outcome for you and your family.
This article is intended for general informational purposes and does not constitute legal advice for any individual case.
